If you’re reading this right now, this question probably has bothered you for some time now. This kind of attitude is entirely reasonable to have; it’s quite prevalent in our world to see people get cynical about this. You see, we as human beings are prone to making mistakes. Maybe you or she made the mistake of having “unrealistic expectations” for something more. The problem is we let emotions get in the way of our friendship with her. I mean, if you’re in a friendship with a woman, but have a heart filled with jealousy, then no, it’s not possible to be just friends.
However, you must try not to set yourself up for failure. I dislike seeing countless people depart from one another because the other person got rejected. Rejection sucks & far too many people let rejection change their new relationships with other people. When we allow the love of eros to get in the way of our friendship with that woman, we become narcissistic. We can play the blame game all we want, but that doesn’t change the fact that you can’t make her love you. Also, we must not forget that women can make mistakes when they’re going through this too. For one, the woman can with no subconscious send mixed signals and come off as if she likes you. This kind of thing can become a pretty significant detriment for your friendship. In other words, she may not be doing it to hurt you.
Nonetheless, if the feelings are not mutual in a friendship, it is not a real friendship. Let’s now talk about why you might have been rejected. I won’t expound on looks because too many people have written on that subject.
1.) She might have had some feelings for you, but she lost interest in you because you didn’t make your move quick enough.
2.) When it comes to a career, she feels she is in a better position than you, and she wants someone who is in the same place as her financially.
3.) Her friends: She is listening to her friend’s advice.
4.) She is not over her Ex.
5.) She doesn’t want to ruin the friendship she has with you.
So, we looked at some reasons why rejection happens, but we must not let rejection ruin the love we have for others, and we must try to make a mends with it eventually. Holding onto grudges is toxic, and if God ever brings that person back into your life, just listen to your heart, my friend.
The world confused and seems to have a distorted view. Most think loves a sweet kiss, a nice statement in time. But don’t know that love is sacred, its patient and kind. It not filled with sinful jealously, it doesn’t brag & boast. It priceless and can’t be bought with a stack of dough. Its so true. Its not rude. It doesn’t seek its own its selfless, I’m telling this because we need to know. Its not easily angered, keeps no record of wrongs. It forgives! It’s a blessing and forever is strong. Trip Lee looking for love